Saturday, November 16, 2013

"GOD held to 8 Points By Aptos Defense"

               

During halftime of the North Salinas game I was sitting under a tree on a slope behind the scoreboard.  The North Salinas players gathered in the end-zone beneath me, so the coach could address them.  The first thing he said was "We knew this wouldn't be easy", and followed it with "Aptos is a good football team".  The kids didn't respond. So the coach said something I didn't expect to hear.  He said "Boys, Aptos knows they're staring into the face of GOD right now, and they're scared".

A quick  analysis:  The North Salinas team is "God", and Aptos is "just as shocked by their lead, as we are".

Excuse me, but.....  WHAT?!!  

     (*I am  NOT a religious scholar.  I am not a prophet, or a priest, or a Fabio, or a  Jesus.  I have
never read the Bible, and I only attend church when I'm desperate.  I do not support any religion, nor do I doubt them.  I'm as unqualified to speak of God as anyone.  Take that into consideration as we proceed.
     Having said that, I'm a believer.  I KNOW there's something bigger than any of us, out there.  "God" is just our name for it.
     I can't explain what or who he is, and I can't tell you what he expects from me, or from us.  I can't tell you he's a Man.  And even though I can't prove his existence, I KNOW he's out there.  There have been too many serendipitous events in my life to doubt him.

There's one observation, above all else, that confirms for me, the existence of a conscious plan or intent, that guides everything.  It's this:  When Human Beings  confront events they can't control, they abandon Reason and Science, and turn to faith.  That's a big deal considering we point to our ability to Reason, and follow logic, as the clincher when placing ourselves at the top of the zoological charts.  We may exhaust those abilities before we agree to prayer, but prayer is what's left at the end.

We will, all of us, find it someday.
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Today children, we are going to discuss 'G-O-D', and his inability to pick one team, and stick with them.  Seriously, you can't have every team, and every player, pointing fingers at you every time they score, or sack someone.  Pick somebody already."

If Aptos was facing "God" in North Salinas, who were they facing in Aptos?  Oprah?  Obama? Jay-Z?  No.  They were facing their mirror image.  I think we confuse the intentions of God with our own.  We enter a stadium adorned in school colors, and sit on designated sides. We accuse referees of favoritism when calls don't go our way.  We make excuses, or blame others, when our children receive a substitute role, or never play at all.We see things as "them against us", and ignore the fact that "them" are exactly like us.  "Them" has worked all summer, just like us.  "Them" get penalties, just like us.  "Them" are learning and maturing and growing, just like us. "Them" are the children of parents full of hopes, and fears, just like us.  If circumstances arose that caused us to move, and go to "Them's" school, our allegiance would move with us. We all do it. We're all fickle.  God isn't.
God doesn't care who wins.  He doesn't care who scores a touchdown, or records a sack.  He wants every individual who agrees to the risks inherent in living, to get closer all of them.
to the vision held of who they are.  He wants that because he's the architect behind 
He doesn't care who points their finger upward, as long as everyone gets the opportunity.  He doesn't keep track of the score, either.  He sees two groups of individuals working together, through opposition, to dispense of the limitations placed on their talents and discover new depths of determination.  
     It's not about God at all.  It's about us.  Why do we require a winner, and loser, in everything we do?  Why do we celebrate the outcome, instead of the effort?  And why do we admire the most powerful among us for defeating those who are smaller?  Here's what I think.  I think God let's everyone point a finger in thanks, as a hint.   

We all know, deep down, that the outcome of any game means nothing in the grand scheme of things.  We beat you today, then you beat us tomorrow, then you beat us again the next day, then we beat you again.     If they teach us anything, they teach us that sometimes the team that should win, doesn't.  They teach us that sometimes all that preparation doesn't matter.  They teach us that sometimes the outcome of a game is determined by something impartial, like a gust of wind, or an ice storm.
They teach us about the uncertainty inherent in any outcome: A game. A marriage. An overture. A dream.  A decision. A life.
 'The Face of God?'                    
                                                        Really?
The  violence that arises, and the hatred that separates, and the disregard of empathy comes from us,   because we need it.  Outcomes will be required, until we don't.
 We cheer the superstar who wears our jersey, and throw beer bottles at him when he dons another.  We abandon the rules when we're losing, and poke and bite and pinch, then praise it as a 'gutsy', or a 'no quit' attitude.

Anyone who's competed has been in a situation where you know you're beat, where nothing's left but to acknowledge  your ass, over there, on a platter,  being garnished before it's handed to you.  Learning how to do that, with humility, is one of the best lessons learned from playing competitively, because we all lose occasionally. Even the best.  Yes, even the face of God himself, North Salinas.

The North Salinas coach missed that opportunity because of a  false premise most of us adhere to:  If you tell your team they're out-manned, they'll quit.  Maybe, but I doubt it.  The desire to know where they stand against that opponent won't fade, and the score will no longer be relevant, the effort will.

But if you tell your team that the opponent who is brutally dismissing you in a rout "fears" you like 'God', they won't buy it.  They won't buy it because it's their asses that are getting kicked.  They can feel it, touch it, taste it.

And because if they were God, they would have covered the spread.









       

I Am A Champion!


The boys who played freshman football this year made a statement.  They made it to coaches.  They made it to their fans.  They made it to their opponents.

Most importantly, they made it to themselves.

We told the boys during the summer, that we saw the talent in them for a CCS title.  Perhaps more.  And we told them that talent wouldn't be enough.  They took it to heart.  This group has a ridiculous amount of talent.  You saw that.  There are a lot of other boys whose talent is still maturing, or haven't built their football "I.Q.".  If they stick with this, they will, and when that happens, Good Night.

Out of the 10 schools we played, 8 qualified for CCS playoffs. They're good programs, and this team tore through them.  Here are the 8 teams and how they are ranked:
(Open Div/Best;  D-1/Largest Schools; D-2/smaller; D-3/smaller still (APTOS); D-4/smallest)
  1. Terra Nova #1/Open Div.
  2. Archbishop Mitty #5/Open Div.
  3. Alvarez #1/D-1
  4. Los Gatos #2/D-2
  5. North Salinas #7/D-2
  6. Christopher #4/D-3
  7. Sacred Heart Prep #1/D-4
  8. Monterey #7/D-4
If they gave titles to Freshman we'd have one.  They don't.  Whatever is accomplished on the field starts with what's accomplished in the weight room, during the off season.  Every school I listed is theirs already.

You know where you stand with every team in those brackets.  When we go Head-to-Head based on talent, we win.  If we go Head-to-Head on Heart, we win.  If we go Head-to-Head on toughness & teamwork , we win. 

But will we win the off-season?  Will you do more reps, and weight?  Will you drive yourself to exhaustion, or quit one rep early?  Will you quit when the pain spreads through you, or grit your teeth, and move through it?

It was an honor to be part of what you did.  Now go out and finish it.
Thank you....

Write your legacy.
"I AM A CHAMPION SPEECH'



Script

Today gentlemen, I am honored to coach you, more honored to take you onto the field of battle. There is another honor to be bestowed upon you, that is the answer that comes with that question
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
That's right and i need you to remember that all throughout this game,  i will conquer what has not been conquered
defeat will not be in my creed. I will belive what others have doubted. I will always andevor the prestige honor, and respect of my team. I have trained my mind and my body will follow
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
I will acknowledge the fact that my opponents do not expect me to win, but i will never surrender. Weakness will not be in my heart. I will look to my comrades, to those who have brought me into this world and thoses ho have trained me and i will draw strenght from them
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
I will gladly go out into the field of battle, and i will move, groove and do everything thaht I can do, and I will reach my field of battle by ane means at my disposal. And when I get there, I will arrive violently. I will rip the heart from my enemy and leave it bleeding on the ground, beacause he cannot stop me.
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
To my side I have comrades, comrades that have been with me throught thick and thin, throught sacrifice, throught blood, through sweat, through tears. Nver will I let them fall. Never will I let them down and I will never leave an enemy behind, beacause our opponent does not know my heart.
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
No one will deny me, no one will defy me, and no one will tell me who and what I am and can be. Belivef wil change my world, it has moved continents and countries, and put man on the moon, and il will carry me through this battle.
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
Defeat, retreat those are not in my words, I don't understant those definitions, I don't understant when things go wrong, I don't understand mistakes, but I do understand this: I understand victory, and I undertsand never surrendering. NO matter how bad things go, my heart and my mind will carry my body when my linbs are too weak
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
Today will be that day, not tomorrow, not next week, but right now, right here, in your house, and in your home
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
History will remember me, and I will not have to worry about him being kind. I will define myself. I will write my own praises. And non one will tell me what I can and cannot be. I will never go home, not without giving everythiong I have got
COZ WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !!!
WHO AM I ? I'M A CHAMPION !!!!!